How to Break Things Off With Your Clingy Sex Buddy. Youve got problems, Ive got advice. This advice isnt sugar coatedin fact, its sugar free, and may even be a little bitter. Welcome to Tough Love. Youve got problems, Ive got advice. This advice isnt sugar coatedin fact, its sugar free, andRead more Read. This week we have a guy who wants to end things with his sex buddy who seems to think theyre something more. Keep in mind, Im not a therapist or any other kind of health professionaljust a guy whos willing to tell it like it is. I simply want to give you the tools you need to enrich your damn lives. If for whatever reason you dont like my advice, feel free to file a formal complaint here. Heres the thing Good people do bad things sometimes. Its possible that good hackers, the ones we celebrate for stopping malware, also create malware, perhaps. 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Its been over a year since we first started talking and Im starting to believe she thinks we are more serious than we are. Ive never been great about breaking up and so Im curious what this type of situation requires. Can I text her A phone callAn in person awkward conversation I want to be respectful but I also dont want it to seem more serious than it is. I feel like if I talk to her in person Im somewhat acknowledging the commitment that Ive never truly felt. Sincerely,Not Feeling It. Hey Not Feeling It I gotta say, a little communication would have gone a long way in this situation. First off, you should absolutely talk to her in person about ending things. How old are you, dude Youve been intimate with this woman at least 1. Petes sake And youve been friendsFRIENDSfor over a year I dont understand why you dont think that warrants a face to face. What, you can only see her in person if it means you get to bang her Damn, man, have some empathy. It seems the summer fling is a real thing. According to data from the online dating serviceRead more Read. Talking to her like shes a person you even remotely care about does not automatically mean you were once committed in a super serious relationship. Even if it did, youre looking to end things, so it doesnt matter. Theres no Serious Relationships Bureau that will note it down on your permanent record. Call her, ask her to meet you somewhere public not your apartments or where you work, and tell her whats going on. She might be fine with it ending because she wants something real. She might be a little confused and youll have to explain whats bothering you. Or, OR You might just find out that youre not the mega stud you thought you were, and that shes not interested in anything more either. Maybe she means it when she says shes fine with just sex, maybe the pet names are because she doesnt want to say your name or doesnt want to mix it up with someone elses maybe the fact youve never gone on a date or been anywhere but your apartments is exactly what she wanted too maybe the fact that she initiates the texting makes you HER booty call. Im not saying this is the case, but youll never really know until you talk to her about this stuff. Have you thought about this situation from her perspective at all Perhaps shes not this damaged, precious thing that needs anything beyond your pretty fantastic lovin. Either way, man up and talk to her, in person, with your mouth. Youll be fine, and youll have an opportunity to clear the air if theres any confusion. Download Movie Mother Love Me Once Again Korean. This what mature, respectful adults do. The phrase scheduled sex evokes dread for most couples. We have the idea that sex is alwaysRead more Read. Now, before you go, Not Feeling It, I have one more piece of advice. I dont know what kind of conversations youve had, you didnt say, but if things are actually the way you say they are, you should have been more upfront about the situation right from the get go. You should have said youre not interested in dating or getting serious because your current timeline of hanging out becoming friends having sex continuing to do so sure looks an awful lot like typical dating trajectory. I could see where one might get confused if you werent explicitly clear about just being sex buddies. Thats it for this week, but I still have plenty of blunt, honest advice bottled up inside. Tell me, whats troubling you Is work getting you downAre you having problems with a friend or a coworker Is your love life going through a rough patch Do you just feel lost in life, like you have no direction Tell me, and maybe I can help. I probably wont make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, but sometimes what you need is some tough love. Ask away in the comments below, or email me at the address you see at the bottom of the page please include ADVICE in the subject line. Or tweet at me with Tough. Love Also, DO NOT EMAIL ME IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR REQUEST FEATURED. I do not have time to respond to everyone just for funsies. Til next time, figure things out for yourself.